Life is an ever-evolving journey, and with each new chapter comes change—new experiences, new challenges, and yes, even new styles. It’s natural to hold on to the looks and trends that once made us feel confident and beautiful, but it’s equally important to recognize when it’s time to let go and embrace the new.

As we navigate through different phases of life, our budgets, bodies, and lifestyles inevitably change. Whether it’s a career shift, becoming a parent, or simply growing older and wiser, these experiences shape us and influence our personal style. Holding on to the past can sometimes feel like clinging to a version of ourselves that no longer exists. As the saying goes, “You haven’t lost yourself; you just haven’t met the new you yet.”

The Impact of Life Changes on Style

Think back to your favourite outfit from a decade ago. Perhaps it was a chic pencil skirt and blazer combo that made you feel invincible at work, or maybe it was that trendy bohemian dress you wore to music festivals. While those pieces served you well at the time, your life today might call for something different. Here’s why:

1. Budgets Evolve: As priorities shift, so do budgets. Maybe you used to splurge on high-end fashion but now prefer investing in timeless, versatile pieces. Or perhaps you’re more conscious of sustainable fashion choices.

2. Bodies Change: Life stages such as pregnancy, menopause, or simply the natural ageing process bring changes to our bodies. What once fit like a glove may no longer feel as comfortable or flattering.

3. Lifestyles Shift: A demanding job, raising children, or pursuing new hobbies can influence how you dress. Comfort and practicality might take precedence over the latest trends.

Growing Through Experience

Every experience we go through adds a layer to our identity, helping us grow and evolve. This growth is a powerful force, pushing us forward and encouraging us to redefine how we want to present ourselves to the world. Here’s how our experiences shape our style:

- Self-Discovery: With each phase of life, we learn more about who we are and what we value. This deeper self-understanding reflects in our style choices, moving towards what genuinely resonates with us.

- Confidence in Change: Embracing change can be empowering. When we let go of past styles, we make room for new looks that better express who we are today.

- Emotional Connection: Our clothes are more than just fabric; they carry memories and emotions. While it’s important to cherish these memories, it’s equally important to recognize when it’s time to create new ones with fresh pieces that align with our current selves.

Some of my 90s fashion inspiration - The hair, the chocker necklaces and anything the Spice Girls wore. Loved it then but its not me now. (well I could be persuaded)

How to Embrace the New You

1. Reflect and Release: Take a moment to reflect on your style journey. Acknowledge the past, then gently let go of pieces that no longer serve you. This can be a cathartic process, freeing you to welcome new styles.

2. Experiment and Explore: Don’t be afraid to try new things. Experiment with different cuts, colours, and trends. You might discover a new favourite look that you never would have considered before.

3. Prioritise Comfort and Joy: Choose clothes that make you feel comfortable and joyful. When you wear something that feels right, it shows in your confidence and demeanour.

4. Seek Inspiration: Look for style inspiration from various sources—fashion blogs, magazines, or even street style. Use these inspirations to curate a wardrobe that feels authentically you.

5. Be Patient with Yourself: Style evolution is a gradual process. Be patient and kind to yourself as you navigate this journey.

Final Thoughts

Life is about growth, change, and embracing the new. Your style should reflect who you are now, not who you were yesterday. By letting go of past styles and welcoming new ones, you open the door to discovering a version of yourself that is vibrant, authentic, and truly you. Remember, “You haven’t lost yourself; you just haven’t met the new you yet.” Embrace her with open arms and a fabulous wardrobe to match.

Love

Louise

The noughties really was just a mash up of too many accessories and over processed hair. Loved it! The move from Avril’s style to Sienna Miller was surprisingly easy!